Weekend Kindness
Reaching Others Through Kindness

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Leslie is selling her house, and wants to know if we have any tips for her.  So, out of kindness, I thought I’d share a few from my experiences over the past year selling and buying…

1. Know the overlap

Say you sign up with Sincerity Realty.  After a month with Sincerity Realty your house has not sold, so you decide to go with The Selling Guide.  You house sells within the first week. 

Who gets paid?  Both.

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Hubby, are you reading this?  Someone, send him a link. :p

Actually, hubby does make me melt.  All the time.  He’s an amazing man, friend, lover, husband, and servant.  I am so unworthy to be his wife.

Some things hubby has done to make me melt:

•  Brought a cat, Bouncer, home for Valentine’s Day.  He hates cats.  He thinks the perfect companions for cats are potato guns.  Yeah.  But since he loves me and I miss my parents’ cat, he got me Bouncer.
• Sacrificed his all-time favorite mattress for a bed I love, but he hates.  His sacrificial love always amazes me.
• We have a date night each week and the 1st of each month.  Our date nights mean so much to hubby and the fact that he prizes these nights with me makes me swoon.
• Two words: Baby.  Fever.  Hubby wants to be a daddy.  This is a new development as infants scare him.  (He’s okay once a child can talk and tell you they’re hungry or they have an owie or whatever.)  Some days I think he wants a baby more than I do.  And that’s a whole lot.
• Pouring into youth - especially those without father figures.  He is the dad some of these kids never got to have.  I love watching him around teenagers, especially teenage boys.  They’ll go to the movies or to the gym.  He’ll go to their games.  He urges them to become men of God.  It’s absolutely beautiful.

So that’s why my husband’s amazing.  Boy sometimes, compared to him, I feel like a shmuck.

I sure do love him.

Hubby and his family are in love with my enchiladas. Which is awesome since his grandma is known for her authentic New Mexican cooking and I’m just a silly gringa.

And the best part? They’re so easy!

AG’s White Girl Enchiladas
Servings: Theoretically, six. Realistically, two. They’re scrumptious.

Ingredients
6 boneless skinless chicken breasts.
1 or 2 26 oz cans green chili. I like Stokes brand a lot and I use about a can and a half, depending on how I’m feeling that day. I think the chili makes or breaks this recipe.

1 or 2 1lb bags pre-shredded mexican style blend cheese. Again, I usually use about a bag and a half, depending on my mood.
6 burrito size white tortillas.
Any hot sauce, salsa, lettuce, tomatos, sour cream, etc., that you’d want to put on top.

Directions (Brace yourself… this is too easy!)
Preheat oven to 350ºF. Place oven rack toward the middle of the oven.
Cook chicken in a skillet over medium high heat until outside is cooked. Slice breasts into strips. Cook chicken strips until completely done.
Spread a few tablespoonsful of green chili in the bottom of a 9×13 (I prefer glass) baking dish to prevent sticking.
In each tortilla, spoon about two tablespoonsful of green chili, top with 1/6 of the chicken, and a good-sized handful of cheese.
Roll tortilla and place enchilada with the loose end face-down into the baking dish.
Once all six enchiladas are in the baking dish, spoon the remaining green chili on top. Spread the chili out so no little corners of tortilla are sticking out as they will burn if they don’t have chili on them.
Cover entire dish with cheese - lots of cheese. As much cheese as you dare.
Bake at 350ºF until it smells so good you can’t stand it. (Usually between 20 and 35 minutes, depending on the oven. And if you forget about it or not.)

And remember - the meals you eat with your family are automatically only half the calories.

This week’s topic is “If I could change one thing about them…” But I think the tables need to turn.  Our whole culture teaches us to look at them and blame them.  My husband has plenty of flaws and I could write pages and pages about them.  But that would hardly improve my relationship with him.  And isn’t Weekend Kindness all about building relationships?

God’s been speaking to me lately.  Sometimes I really hate what he has to say.

Turns out, I don’t want to focus on changing something about my husband, but I need to focus on changing things about me.  Darn it.

Hubby is upbeat, energetic, motivated, responsible, and everything I’m not.  I’m lazy, disorganized, easily flustered, and everything hubby isn’t.  I know God brings opposites together to balance each other out, (Hubby teaches me to be adventurous and I teach hubby to relax once in a while.) but extremes of one thing or another are rarely good.

So, if I could change one thing about myself, I would become a better bride to my groom.  This involves getting motivated and organized, staying current on housework, being frugal, and prioritizing better.

I think my priorities should be:

God

Husband

Fellowship with other believers

Home business

Home-making

Church ministries

Part-time job

What do you think?