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The Slush Shop is Open

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Last weekend with the forecast predicting our first real heat wave of the year, I planned an icy surprise for my husband. One of his favorite summer refreshments is my mom’s citrus slush…and the past two summers, I’ve forgotten to make it until late summer. Used to be something I always kept on hand, in fact, my father-in-law who farms around us, would stop by unannounced once or twice a week to visit what he termed, “The Slush Shop”.

This recipe takes a couple of days to freeze and serve, so as I taught my girls how to make it, we planned to keep it a secret from daddy…to save it for the best possible moment when he’d appreciate it the most. Our moment came on Monday afternoon. We’d all been working on building a chicken house, and between the dust of old boards (we’re recycling) and the hot sun, slush was just the ticket. And did it ever make my dh’s day…

Here’s the recipe for you. My mom and dad taught Bible studies in the home of the lady who sometimes served this after class. Everyone loved her slush. I know you will too!

Slush

Mix this simple syrup and allow to boil until clear. Let set until cool.

  • 4 cups sugar
  • 6 cups water

Combine the following ingredients, add to the syrup mixture, and freeze 18-24 hours.

  • 5 bananas, mashed to a pulp
  • 1 large (46 oz) can pineapple juice
  • juice of 2 lemons (or the equivalent of Realemon)
  • 1 small can frozen orange juice concentrate
  • 3 cans (from orange juice) of water

About an hour, perhaps two, before you want to serve the slush, remove it from the freezer and mash it into a slush. If you have frozen it overnight, it will require more time to become slush. Add 4 quarts ginger ale or 7-Up. Mix well. Serves 40.

The above instructions assume you are serving it all at once to a crowd. We actually keep our slush in a 5 quart ice cream bucket, already “mashed” and dip out individual servings–much as you would make an ice cream float. The initial mashing part sometimes means letting it thaw a little on the counter…then I criss-cross it with one of my long sharp cutlery knives and use a potato masher or a Pampered Chef “Mix and Chop” to finish the job. This way, at serving time, you can scoop it out effortlessly, rather than hacking at a solid bowl full of slush. Another tip, freeze it in a large bowl and after mashing, transfer it into an ice cream bucket. It makes a little too much to fit into an ice cream bucket…so you might want to serve up that extra immediately!

While I was at it, I filled a bucket for my father-in-law. Wish you could come to my slush shop too!



Mary is a cowboy's wife and a homeschooling mother of three who hopes to use her love of the written word for God's glory and to encourage others.
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Friday, May 23rd, 2008

Acts of Service

Hubby’s and my love languages are very different.  And I’m no good at speaking his love language: Acts of Service.  A little brainstorming is in order:  How do I show love to my husband when I’m terrible at serving him?

 

My thoughts are below.  What ideas can you give me?

 

Food

The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, right?  Maybe I should focus on having a hot meal prepared for him when he gets home from work.  This will take some creativity since I generally pick him up from work.  It’ll have to be something I can cook quickly or that reheats well.

 

Cleanliness

Staying current on housework, providing a calm, organized environment for him will not only show him love, but will help me feel more collected.  Any tips on getting and staying organized with space?  I’m no good at the “a place for everything and everything in its place” principle.

 

Sacrificial Giving

I can’t stand tattoos.  I don’t think there’s anything wrong with them, they’re just not very attractive.  But hubby wants a tattoo so badly.  For Christmas, I got him a gift card to a tattoo parlor.  This is one example, but I can’t think of any other bits of sacrificial giving, can anyone help me?

 

This is about as much as I can think of when it comes to serving my husband, but I know there has to be more to it.  Any other ideas when it comes to service?  Thanks, everyone!



AG is a Christian woman who's been married for three years and is hoping to start a family soon. She grew up in church as a pastor's kid and has loved Jesus her whole life. She has a passion for kids, teens, music, and missions, and praising God!
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Monday, April 7th, 2008

Happy Birthday, MInTheGap!

Happy birthday to MInTheGap!  You, through this blog and others, have touched many lives and today is a celebration of how God has designed you to be a leader in His kingdom.

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AG is a Christian woman who's been married for three years and is hoping to start a family soon. She grew up in church as a pastor's kid and has loved Jesus her whole life. She has a passion for kids, teens, music, and missions, and praising God!
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Monday, April 7th, 2008

Showing love with a lump of coal

j0433052.jpgLife as a railroad family can be a little hectic. My husband comes and goes with the trains, sometimes staying for as little as 6 1/2 hours before being called away again. And of course, somewhere in there he needs to get some sleep. It is his job that allows me to stay home with the children while also not having to worry too much about personal finances. Children, however, tend to be very concrete. They only know that the train is what takes daddy away. And daddy knows that “I love you” over the phone doesn’t mean as much as wrestling on the couch. While nothing can quite replace that, my husband has found ways to tell the children they are special and that he is thinking of them despite the separation.

Their favorite? Gifts, of course!

These gifts, however, are not generally items that you could find in a store. In fact, it is rare that they have any real material value. A lump of coal or interesting rock found while walking the tracks, a menu from the restaurant he ate breakfast at, a brochure from the hotel, a map, a penny, and a walnut have all become treasured possessions. While they are frequent, they are not quite routine…and my husband does not even necessarily bring something for each child when he does bring something home. Our oldest stores away her treasures, as she calls them, to draw out when she misses her father. The younger ones tend to drag them around until they are worn to nothing or finally lost, which has been the fate of all of the postcards he has sent thus far. So much for the album I was trying to make for them!

These simple gifts do not represent anything of material value. Instead, they demonstrate that their father thinks of them while he is away in a very tangible way. And while they cannot give him a hug every day, they can clasp a walnut, flip a coin or recite the lines off the back of a postcard while they wait for his next phone call.



As a wife, mother, and writer, Dana Hanley has many roles but wears only one hat which ties them all together: Christian. You can visit more with her at her blog, Principled Discovery
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Monday, February 18th, 2008

A Weakened Kindness

Please forgive me for the play on words here but the Lord keeps bringing it mind. The Lord has been dealing with me a lot lately concerning my dependence upon Him. This dependence must be in every area of my life.

When I started blogging eleven months ago I had no idea what I was getting myself into. I have been hurt, discouraged and forced to look more deeply at who I am. Though most painful, this has stretched me and caused me to grow. But I have also made many friends along the way. They have encouraged me, spurred me on and challenged me which has also caused me to grow.

The Lord is actively at work in my life and I have a peace that passes all understanding. I have been allowed to be a blessing to others and the Lord continues to open new doors of ministry for me in the blogging world. This adds a great responsibility I did not anticipate and is one I constantly feel ill-equipped to fulfill. I am humbled each time I am praised because I know that it is only by the power of the Spirit that anyone is touched.

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MamaArcher is the wife of a pastor who is currently serving as a chaplain in the military. She is the mother of eight wonderful children and a classical Christian homeschooler.
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Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

What Will You Do This Weekend to Say "I Love You?"

Each and every day presents us with a chance to make a difference in the lives of those around us.  We impact each person that we interact with on different levels, and the strange thing is that most of the time we don’t even think about how we will interact– even though if we did we could dramatically improve our relationships.

With that in mind, I want to ask you this question: What will you do this weekend to say “I love you?” It could be to your spouse, your family, or some friend, but if we start to ask the question now we should have something in mind so that when the time comes we actually have a better chance of making a difference in someone’s life.

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MInTheGap has been commenting on the culture at large and current events since 2004. He enjoys spending time with his family, writing, and being active in his local church.
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Friday, January 11th, 2008

When Do You Blog?

The other way to ask this question is: How do you juggle blogging and family time?

For me, I tend to try to leverage (I know buzz-speak) the times that I’m still awake and the family is not.  So, I end up staying up late at night to write posts for all my blogs.

I did try mornings for a little while, but I found that I was much more likely to wake someone up when I got up in the morning than I was when I worked late into the night.

And, of course, how late I can work and how much I get done is a factor of when I get started.  The later I get started, the less I get done.

How about you?  Do you blog when the kids are around, or do you find odd hours as well?



MInTheGap has been commenting on the culture at large and current events since 2004. He enjoys spending time with his family, writing, and being active in his local church.
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Tuesday, December 11th, 2007