Weekend Kindness
Reaching Others Through Kindness

Some of you may or may not know this, but I have another blog that seeks to help wives know what their husbands think and what they believe.  I?m currently going through a set of things that I believe hurt both spouses, and I?d like to highlight 5 things I believe that wives believe that they shouldn?t.

1. It?s Ok to Let Children Change The Relationship

Children definitely add a different dynamic to the household, but if you let them get in between you and your spouse, the odds are that it could create a rift that?s not easily healed.  Many couples let the children become their lives, and lose their identity in them.  When the children are gone, what happens is that there are two people that haven?t been growing together?not a good thing.

2. It?s Ok to Put Off Intimate Relations

Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together.  It?s meant to be the most secure of fastening material because it was meant for that relationship alone.  It?s also meeting his needs.  If you think that it?s ok to have a sexless marriage, then you have been deceived, and you?re encouraging him to look for meeting that need elsewhere.

3. It?s Ok if I Flirt

Flirting is a means of getting attention?it?s a way to tell someone you?re interested.  Whether you?re a man or woman, you should not be sending the wrong signals to the opposite sex!

4. Does He Still Find Me Hot?

If he hasn?t said that he thinks you?re sexy lately, it doesn?t necessarily mean that he?s found another woman.  Best to talk with him and see what?s going on.

5. A Family Vacation is the Only Type of Vacation

Think that the family vacation is the only type of vacation there is?  Sometimes there?s a lot to be gained from finding a sitter and going out on a second, third or fourth honeymoon.

If you?ve liked these, head on over to Lies Wives Believe and see what else is there!

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