 | Wives5 Lies that Wives BelievePosted Thursday, July 9th, 2009 and visited 1146 times, 1 so far today by MInTheGap |
Some of you may or may not know this, but I have another blog that seeks to help wives know what their husbands think and what they believe. I’m currently going through a set of things that I believe hurt both spouses, and I’d like to highlight 5 things I believe that wives believe that they shouldn’t.
1. It’s Ok to Let Children Change The Relationship
Children definitely add a different dynamic to the household, but if you let them get in between you and your spouse, the odds are that it could create a rift that’s not easily healed. Many couples let the children become their lives, and lose their identity in them. When the children are gone, what happens is that there are two people that haven’t been growing together—not a good thing.
2. It’s Ok to Put Off Intimate Relations
Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. It’s meant to be the most secure of fastening material because it was meant for that relationship alone. It’s also meeting his needs. If you think that it’s ok to have a sexless marriage, then you have been deceived, and you’re encouraging him to look for meeting that need elsewhere.
Flirting is a means of getting attention—it’s a way to tell someone you’re interested. Whether you’re a man or woman, you should not be sending the wrong signals to the opposite sex!
If he hasn’t said that he thinks you’re sexy lately, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s found another woman. Best to talk with him and see what’s going on.
5. A Family Vacation is the Only Type of Vacation
Think that the family vacation is the only type of vacation there is? Sometimes there’s a lot to be gained from finding a sitter and going out on a second, third or fourth honeymoon.
If you’ve liked these, head on over to Lies Wives Believe and see what else is there!
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July 29th, 2009 at 12:34 am
hmmm pretty impressive… i enjoyed reading it from the start to the end… this is tad realistic wives do believe such stuff but its needed in a relationship that you may play the true role… without any lies… that keeps the relationship running :)
November 21st, 2009 at 6:32 pm
My husband and I try to have a date night once a week so that we can spend some quality time just the two of us. With four kids, it can get a little crazy but the kids get a kick out of it and always incourage us to go.
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December 4th, 2009 at 1:23 am
This was my favorite:
pajamas are relaxing, and who wants to get dressed up and looking good when you don’t have to leave the house. The thing is, when you were dating you’d spend hours on your appearance just to please him1.
Take inventory of how you’re dressed and how you present yourself. Surprise him some night when he gets home from work with how good you look—remember, he may be working with women who have prepared themselves for the day.
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December 18th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
While these are all wonderful tips, I have to say, the husband’s actions will often dictate the way his wife acts, as well.
For instance: I love getting dressed up, but I’d much rather get dressed up for someone other than my husband if I get tired of putting the effort into my appearance, and that effort going completely unnoticed.
Besides, most husbands settle into their lifestyles as much as the wives do. If the wife doesn’t want to be around her tired, constantly complaining, moody, boring husband… she’ll likely not put any effort into making herself attractive for him.
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