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	<title>Comments on: Delayed Kindness</title>
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		<title>By: Flawless Skin</title>
		<link>http://www.weekendkindness.net/2009/01/07/delayed-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-6185</link>
		<dc:creator>Flawless Skin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 20:47:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I completely agree with Claudia&#039;s post. It&#039;s hard enough to find a good guy these days, then when you realize that the majority of women around you are willing to give in completely, sexually and emotionally without any commitment from the guy, it&#039;s hard not to try and compete with that for fear of losing the guy.

Generally, I agree with the message in the article. Just wish the rest of the world did, as well.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completely agree with Claudia&#8217;s post. It&#8217;s hard enough to find a good guy these days, then when you realize that the majority of women around you are willing to give in completely, sexually and emotionally without any commitment from the guy, it&#8217;s hard not to try and compete with that for fear of losing the guy.</p>
<p>Generally, I agree with the message in the article. Just wish the rest of the world did, as well.<br />
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		<title>By: for home water purifier</title>
		<link>http://www.weekendkindness.net/2009/01/07/delayed-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-6179</link>
		<dc:creator>for home water purifier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Dec 2009 12:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kindness should not be delayed. I believe that people must not hesitate in helping others...
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kindness should not be delayed. I believe that people must not hesitate in helping others&#8230;<br />
.-= for home water purifier&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://forhomewaterpurifier.blogspot.com/2009/11/whole-house-water-purifier.html">Whole House Water Purifier</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: home typist</title>
		<link>http://www.weekendkindness.net/2009/01/07/delayed-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-6120</link>
		<dc:creator>home typist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 00:07:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Someone asked me why women don&#039;t gamble as much as men do, and I gave the commonsensical reply that we don&#039;t have as much money. That was a true and incomplete answer. In fact, women&#039;s total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Someone asked me why women don&#8217;t gamble as much as men do, and I gave the commonsensical reply that we don&#8217;t have as much money. That was a true and incomplete answer. In fact, women&#8217;s total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage.</p>
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		<title>By: consumer mailing list</title>
		<link>http://www.weekendkindness.net/2009/01/07/delayed-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-5814</link>
		<dc:creator>consumer mailing list</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 21:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Today the media shows that you can have the benefits of marriage with out the commitment of marriage - than the leads people to think why get married.  Women are more than willing to give the &quot;milk&quot; to men, while cooking and cleaning for them, all to get the man to commit to marriage, where the man has no reason to get married because he is getting what he wants. 
Also it is somewhat glorified to have children out of marriage.  Single women who have children get a lot of glory and so forth for raising the baby all by her self - where stay at home moms are looked a little down upon because they don&#039;t really do anything but babysit their kids all day. 
I do not think there is anything more important than marriage and together the faster and mother raising the baby.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today the media shows that you can have the benefits of marriage with out the commitment of marriage &#8211; than the leads people to think why get married.  Women are more than willing to give the &#8220;milk&#8221; to men, while cooking and cleaning for them, all to get the man to commit to marriage, where the man has no reason to get married because he is getting what he wants.<br />
Also it is somewhat glorified to have children out of marriage.  Single women who have children get a lot of glory and so forth for raising the baby all by her self &#8211; where stay at home moms are looked a little down upon because they don&#8217;t really do anything but babysit their kids all day.<br />
I do not think there is anything more important than marriage and together the faster and mother raising the baby.</p>
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		<title>By: Angels Weekly</title>
		<link>http://www.weekendkindness.net/2009/01/07/delayed-kindness/comment-page-1/#comment-5811</link>
		<dc:creator>Angels Weekly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2009 00:32:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so happy to have found your blog!

One of our writers writes about Loving Kindness, and her articles are well received.

I will recommend she come here and have a read.

Thank you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so happy to have found your blog!</p>
<p>One of our writers writes about Loving Kindness, and her articles are well received.</p>
<p>I will recommend she come here and have a read.</p>
<p>Thank you!</p>
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		<title>By: Darryl &#124; Angela Martin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Darryl &#124; Angela Martin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2009 01:01:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>For me, it goes back to the idea of freedom and choice, as pointed out by the previous comment. If the man or the woman does something because he or she truly and freely wants to, then that&#039;s fine. But if it&#039;s done because he or she feels compelled to, or because the treatment of that person will change if he or she doesn&#039;t give in, then that&#039;s a problem.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Darryl &#124; Angela Martins last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://angelamartinbio.blogspot.com/2008/12/angela-martin.html&quot;&gt;Angela Martin&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, it goes back to the idea of freedom and choice, as pointed out by the previous comment. If the man or the woman does something because he or she truly and freely wants to, then that&#8217;s fine. But if it&#8217;s done because he or she feels compelled to, or because the treatment of that person will change if he or she doesn&#8217;t give in, then that&#8217;s a problem.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Darryl | Angela Martins last blog post..<a href="http://angelamartinbio.blogspot.com/2008/12/angela-martin.html">Angela Martin</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Claudia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Claudia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jan 2009 12:42:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find that single women are often too afraid that a man will leave them if they don&#039;t give in to sexual activity. It is very difficult to convince younger women especially that their bodies should be honored and respected by a man, not used as a tool to get a man&#039;s love.

Something I heard on Focus on the Family years ago has stuck with me.  When talking to singles about love and sex, Dr. Dobson said, &quot;Men use (the promise of) love to get sex, women use sex to get love.&quot;

It is heart breaking when we use love and sex only to get what we want, which is often the case in relationships before marriage.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Claudias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://theanniversaryshop.wordpress.com/2009/01/09/company-girl-coffee-taylor-the-latte-boy/&quot;&gt;Company Girl Coffee - Taylor the Latte Boy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that single women are often too afraid that a man will leave them if they don&#8217;t give in to sexual activity. It is very difficult to convince younger women especially that their bodies should be honored and respected by a man, not used as a tool to get a man&#8217;s love.</p>
<p>Something I heard on Focus on the Family years ago has stuck with me.  When talking to singles about love and sex, Dr. Dobson said, &#8220;Men use (the promise of) love to get sex, women use sex to get love.&#8221;</p>
<p>It is heart breaking when we use love and sex only to get what we want, which is often the case in relationships before marriage.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Claudias last blog post..<a href="http://theanniversaryshop.wordpress.com/2009/01/09/company-girl-coffee-taylor-the-latte-boy/">Company Girl Coffee &#8211; Taylor the Latte Boy</a></em></abbr></p>
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