Kindness

Kindness to a Stranger

Posted Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 and visited 123 times, 1 so far today
by MInTheGap

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It’s easy to show kindness to someone you like—and even someone you love—but how often have you showed kindness to an absolute stranger?

They pass you every day.  They’re walking along the street with you, into the parking garage with you, and they’re standing behind you in the check out line.  Do you notice them, or are they in your way.

Here’s a few simple ways to show kindness to a stranger, and brighten their day:

  • When you walk past someone walking alone, tell them “Good morning!” or wish them a good day.  Don’t want to say something?  Make sure to smile and make eye contact.
  • Hold the door open for someone behind you—even if you have to wait a few extra seconds.  They’ll be glad you did.
  • Talk to someone you work with that you’ve never talked with before.  Chances are you’ll have more in common than you thought—I mean, you do work together, after all.
  • If you see that someone behind you has fewer things to buy, let them go first.
  • See a mom with a small kid that may not be behaving, you might try peek-a-boo.
  • If you see someone drop something, and you’re near it, pick it up and hand it to them before they get to it.
  • Send someone a card or write something on a plain piece of paper to let someone know that you are thinking of them.

These are just some ideas—there are many more—the point is that you need to be thinking ahead of time what you’ll do, and looking for opportunities.  Once you’re looking, there will be many that will turn up.



MInTheGap has been commenting on the culture at large and current events since 2004. He enjoys spending time with his family, writing, and being active in his local church.
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2 Responses to “Kindness to a Stranger”

  1. MyAvatars 0.2 Gini Says:

    What a wonderful sentiment, not to mention great ideas. People really underestimate the impact that a simple act of kindness can have.

    Ginis last blog post..It Doesn’t Cost a Thing to Smile

  2. MyAvatars 0.2 MInTheGap Says:

    @Gini: Thanks! It’s true that we often miss the fact that there are people right around us that could be greatly impact by even the simplest of things. And I love your site about hugs healing– nice work!

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