![]() | UncategorizedIt’s Not You, It’s Me…Posted Friday, April 4th, 2008 and visited 16506 times, 11 so far today by AG |
This week?s topic is ?If I could change one thing about them?? But I think the tables need to turn.? Our whole culture teaches us to look at them and blame them.? My husband has plenty of flaws and I could write pages and pages about them.? But that would hardly improve my relationship with him.? And isn?t Weekend Kindness all about building relationships?
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God?s been speaking to me lately.? Sometimes I really hate what he has to say.
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Turns out, I don?t want to focus on changing something about my husband, but I need to focus on changing things about me.? Darn it.
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Hubby is upbeat, energetic, motivated, responsible, and everything I?m not.? I?m lazy, disorganized, easily flustered, and everything hubby isn?t.? I know God brings opposites together to balance each other out, (Hubby teaches me to be adventurous and I teach hubby to relax once in a while.) but extremes of one thing or another are rarely good.
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So, if I could change one thing about myself, I would become a better bride to my groom.? This involves getting motivated and organized, staying current on housework, being frugal, and prioritizing better.
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I think my priorities should be:
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God
Husband
Fellowship with other believers
Home business
Home-making
Church ministries
Part-time job
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What do you think?
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April 4th, 2008 at 3:28 pm